Almost a year has been passed

It has been almost a year since the incident happened to me . When i told my close friend this song 《我还想她》is really nice , he reacted back to me by saying " u are not thinking of her anymore " Harshly speaking what my friend maybe right but for me it is not about still thinking of someone or not but it is all about how much the someone changed you especially in thinking . Is due to the someone i started to believe " what is yours is yours " (off course this has been supported with a friend case which is quite romantic story ) and i also started to believe that no matter how much u appreciate something that is not yours then when the time came the something will just gone like that no matter how much u take care on it .