There are many stories about a guy like a girl but there is another guy who try to "snatch" the girl from the very 1st guy eventhough they are in relationship and the second guy seems to be succeed to do so . Harshly speaking if anything like this happened three years ago , for sure i will feel that the second guy should be blamed but nowadays , it seems to be too many cases like this happened already and people around nowadays really feel nothing wrong to do so. There are about two to three friends who told me some of their theory and their feeling about this and one their thinking is "there is no rule such as 1st come 1st serve in love " which also means if u are the 1st one who like a girl it doesnt means the second guy will have no right to "snatch" the girl away from you . Another friend told me that "there is no right or wrong in love" . And some of them even said if the girl u like or love being "snatched away" by another guy it means you have no skills to maintain the relationship. In my opinion , this is an open ended question which has no answer but i do believe different people will have different opinion . However , i think those who have the same thinking like "there is no rule such as 1st come 1st serve in love" and also "there is no right or wrong in love" will have the clearer feeling about that when the snatching cases happened to the girl or the guy that they really love in their life .
JFYI : I NEVER HAVE NO RIGHT TO SAY THE THEORY IS TOTALLY RIGHT OR WRONG SINCE ALL OF THE GIRLS THAT I HAVE FEELING ON THEM ONLY SHOW TWO KIND OF REACTION TO ME THAT ARE REJECTION WHICH CONSIST OF DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY AND ALSO ANOTHER REACTION IS FOUND OR BEING COURTED BY ANOTHER GUY . HOWEVER I DO BELIEVE THE THEORY THAT "RICH ALWAYS BECOME RICH BUT POOR ALWAYS MAINTAIN POOR IN LIFE " WHICH ALSO CAN BE RELATED TO " THOSE WHO ALWAYS HAVE GIRLFRIENDS WILL ALWAYS HAVE NEW GIRLFRIENDS BUT THOSE WHO NEVER SUCCEED WILL KEEP ON FAILING IN RELATIONSHIP MATTER"
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
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personally, i think it lays in what a person value is. from a girl's point of view, i would choose to be loyal, which is also part of my principle. i will not double-time in a relationship, because i believe karma will get me in return.
stuff like these, love especially, people has their "excuses" to make the wrong statement sounds right. how strong you hold on to your personal believes, depends on how strong your will power is.
btw, to betray your partner or not, is a willingness on both side. no one has the power to force another person to dump their current partner to follow them. if anyone is at fault here, it is both the "new guy" n the "girl". or at least, that is what i believe. :)
You are right ,Levian for the 1st two parts but the final part i guess u left out the old and also the 1st guy who is so innocent
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